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D/s & BDSM Info
(from the perspective of a submissive slut!)

sex slave tamara intense clothespin torturemy first little tidbit of D/s info is going to be telling y'all that being a submissive slut is not a bad thing or a derogatory thing. it's just a fact, and an inherent part of who and what i am, and NOT something i am exactly ashamed of. :) if others don't agree, that's okeydokey with me, but boy do i get tired of hearing "slut??? why would you call yourself that???" from people who just don't get it.

basically this section of the site is dedicated to my answering whatever questions about D/s and BDSM that i can, from my own perspective. there probably are not many who think like me, which is okeydokey with me as well, and the info provided here might be a different perspective for YOU than what you'll find on most BDSM oriented sites. let me know what you think, and as always feel free to ask questions or comment anytime!
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about my past

ask tamara
questions i've been asked by a variety of site viewers, and my answers to those questions

ask tamara part two
this is an email exchange between me and a woman who is... curious and simultaneously horrified by the concept of BDSM, and i mean even the mildest forms... and asked me some questions. one thing that is very positive about her is that even tho she seems to really disagree with slavery and servitude, she is very open minded and does want to learn, if possible, to understand why anyone would choose this lifestyle. interesting reading.

D/s FAQ
a few basic definitions of terms and ideas from my own perspective

Safety & BDSM
a sorta-rant/babble/article about the issues of emotional safety involved for submissives.

chat with a maybe submissive friend
a chat i had with an online friend who IMd one night asking me questions about the why's of serving (names were changed, and in posted chatlogs they always will be)

chat with a dominant
this one is almost like an interview... just a very intelligent man asking me some really interesting questions about me, the site, me serving, and what it all means and what i think about all of it... i think you guys will enjoy it :)

brat vs. slave (or, Vanilla Slide)
the wise words of a male dominant explaining the diff between naughty sluts and submissives who need to serve

an open letter to my Former Master

The Rosie Archives
read 'em.. you'll see why i love them.  i don't agree with EVERYTHING she says. but i do agree with LOTS of it, and she has a great, honest writing style.

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