D/s &
BDSM Info
(from the perspective of a submissive slut!)
 my
first little tidbit of D/s info is going to be telling y'all that being a
submissive slut is not a bad thing or a derogatory thing. it's just
a fact, and an inherent part of who and what i am, and NOT something i am
exactly ashamed of. :) if others don't agree, that's okeydokey with
me, but boy do i get tired of hearing "slut??? why would you call yourself
that???" from people who just don't get it.
basically this section of the site
is dedicated to my answering whatever questions about D/s and BDSM that i
can, from my own perspective. there probably are not many who think
like me, which is okeydokey with me as well, and the info provided here might
be a different perspective for YOU than what you'll find on most BDSM oriented
sites. let me know what you think, and as always feel free to ask questions
or comment anytime!
hugs*
~tamara
ask
tamara
questions i've been asked by a variety of site viewers, and my answers to
those questions
ask
tamara part two
this is an email exchange between me and a woman who is... curious and
simultaneously horrified by the concept of BDSM, and i mean even the mildest
forms... and asked me some questions. one thing that is very positive
about her is that even tho she seems to really disagree with slavery and
servitude, she is very open minded and does want to learn, if possible, to
understand why anyone would choose this lifestyle. interesting
reading.
D/s
FAQ
a few basic definitions of terms and ideas from my own
perspective
Safety
& BDSM
a sorta-rant/babble/article about the issues of emotional safety involved
for submissives.
chat
with a maybe submissive friend
a chat i had with an online friend who IMd one night asking me questions
about the why's of serving (names were changed, and in posted chatlogs they
always will be)
chat
with a dominant
this one is almost like an interview... just a very intelligent man asking
me some really interesting questions about me, the site, me serving, and
what it all means and what i think about all of it... i think you guys will
enjoy it :)
brat
vs. slave (or, Vanilla Slide)
the wise words of a male dominant explaining the diff between naughty sluts
and submissives who need to serve
Absolute Power Exchange
a series of articles about Absolute Power Exchange; if you are interested
in BDSM on any level, i think these are worth the read... 'specially the
ones by Rosie! they discuss a lot of the WHY of submission, why it
makes submissive women feel sooooooooo good, and why it can be such a positive
and healthy thing.
More Rosie... the Rosie Archives
read 'em.. you'll see why i love them. i don't agree with EVERYTHING
she says. but i do agree with LOTS of it, and she has a great, honest writing
style.
About Cyberdoms
this link will open in a new window, and the article was written by Dork
E. Dom as a parody of "cyber" dominants... check it out for a good giggle
:)
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